the male perspective??

If he lied to you once, He'll lie to you again and again and again and again.

The reason he is playing this game is he wants to
keep his credibility with you and have his cake ....


(I know I butchered that saying.....the joke was too easy..)

There is a difference between being lonely and spending time with someone else's squeeze...


He got one thing right-you don't tell anyone that you are 'seeing' someone else's GF-you lie about it. That way people can't say you are backstabbing your friend by seeing HIS GF!!!

There's nothing worse than having YOUR friends think you are a cheating punk...they won't want you to hang around with THEIR GF's at social functions.

Being 'spontaneous' is just another way of saying,

"Hey, something else came along-I have to cancel our plans....."