Originally posted by K9soul

But this morning my husband decided "no dogs on any furniture". I don't think he understands how confusing it is to let a dog do something for so long and then suddenly decide it's off limits. Not only that, but it was something me and Tasha shared that meant a lot to us. I tried to explain all this to him but once he gets something in his head he's like a brick wall.
Please don't be offended, but is he your husband or your father? I mean, my husband and I make decisions together. He does not tell me the law and I obey. I don't tell him the law and he obeys either. We work out situations and make the rules together. One of us couldn't just arbitrarily say "No more dogs on the furniture" and even expect the other to do it.