Johanna, I agree with Carole. Zippy already had a lot on her plate before she lost her two dear long-time friends.

I think right now I would forgive her just about anything. And knowing Zip, it is not her way to insult you. We need to extend a bit of tenderness for now.

I know you like a good "challenge" - but this might not be the one you are after.

And no offense intended............