Originally posted by aly
I would be there if I thought she would care, but she never really cares or notices too much who is around her. She hates to be held and doesn't really like petting, its like she doesnt' know what it means.
I feel like you have answered your own question and justified your actions--- being on the outside of things we cannot possibly understand and cannot accurately "judge." I trust that you will do the right thing, just like giving Peka a chance to know *LOVE* was the right thing!
No one could ever not like you Aly! It's impossible!!!
(((((HUGS))))) during this difficult time.