Without my debit card, I am lost....that is why I have two

Really...for the same account!! When I changed my name after gettingmarried, they sent me a new card, with a new number for the same account. I treied to cancel the old one, but they make it so hard...you actually have to go INTO the bank?!? With direct deposit, and a ATM card, who does that?!?

I almost never have cash...and usually can only find one of my cards. The other? Loose in my purse, in the laundry, who knows