I think she's like a friend of mine - got engaged to everyone she dated more than once, only J-Lo goes through with the marriage. This friend of mine, "Christy" had been engaged 10 times by the time we were 22/23 - finally after dating "Bobby" for about 8 years, they THEN got engaged and a year later, married. I think "Bobby" wanted to make sure he wasn't gonna be just another guy on Christy's list before making that kind of commitment.

Don't really care, but *IF* Jen and Ben do really love each other, I hope they find a way to stay together, without all the publicity. I hope that for pair of human beings who think they've found true love.

Because I know love exists, I hope everyone finds it!