Originally posted by Soledad


As for the husband always having the final say, I think Sam and I would both die laughing over that rule.
Siegmar and me too!!!

But I think there must be a veto option for a partner. I remember the friend (and later husband) of a friend of mine who had his superbike in their living room. He just wanted to see it all the time. Ok -in a case like that I would say NO and so I have to accept that after the exchange of arguments there could be some things that just can't be decided by one person saying "I absolutely need it".

Of course: if one partner can't live without a pet and the other just doesn't stand it and if this question has a high priority for both of them -then maybe that was not a relationship made in heaven