Thanks everyone, I have just heard mum is in recovery now, and everything went really well, no complications, so that is real good news, now she just has to get over it and recover, the hard bit for her, you guy's are the best, my first reaction when I heard the good news, geez I better get online and tell you all.

Yep its alway's hard knowing a loved one is hurting, and I find this particularly hard to bear,but I know she is in very good hand's, she was in surgery for 3 to 4 hrs, because the surgeon likes to take his time and is very thorough, so that makes me feel good, no rush jobs here.

I will go and see her tomorrow, as she will not be in a fit state to worry about visitors today, she has bad reaction to the anesthetic always, very sick, poor thing, I hate her suffering, but I know she will be much better after she has recovered.