Thank you everyone, it really help's being able to share my worry's with you all, thanks for being there and listening, yep it alway's seems to happen that way with mum, she get's everything at once, looks like mid sept will be when the operation is performed,going to specialist on monday, he comes highly recommended, and I am very impressed with him, he is south american from Peru, and is really up to date on everything, and keyhole surgery is his speciality, he does conferences world-wide, infact he is off to sydney for a conference soon.
So this does give me some peace of mind. will keep you all posted.