I hope you don't have to leave Amber! It wouldn't be the same without you, Cami, or Cali. Good luck talking to your mom and dad.
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UPDATE: I just figured out the "Amber" is not the Amber as we know her of. She is a man, and her name is Phil. "He" is around 50 years old (not quite as old as "Kayann" whos real name is Bob), so be aware.