I do know where you are coming from on this one fox-gal.

I have a close friend, who is clean in herself and every other way, but to my suprise she thinks nothing of leaving her toddler's face covered in food and does not wipe his runny nose very often, needless to say he alway's seem's to have a runny nose.

Oneday she said he wants you to kiss him goodbye carole, he only like's kisse's on the lip's, well I don't kiss kids on the lip's,mainly for hygiene reason's alone, now take in mind he had a very dirty face and a rather runny nose, I was not thrilled at the thought of this, even though he is a real cute child, so I quickly gave him a peck on the cheek, but I did not enjoy doing so.

AWKWARD situation.

I think the wet-wipes idea is brilliant, you can discretly use them when no-one is in sight, good luck, and hey I would go easy on the adopting two more stray's lol. just kiddin. GOOD LUCK!!