the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

You will usually know what a person is like within the first week. Trust me, if a person does not respect you and abide by the rules you have set up
in your household, you can pretty much be assured that they won't change..

Yes, sit down and talk to her but impress upon her that the day she has to leave is -------.

it becomes that much harder to ask someone to leave when the deadline comes and goes.

good luck.