MoosMom, I am very sorry for you lose as well.

I remeber getting back from a weekend vacation and hearing my brother on hubby's answering machine (at the time we were only dating) and we had to quickly run over to my moms house and go to the hospital, that is where we were told.

Griving is very hard. My problem is when people tell my and my mom and my brother that we need to get over it and grow up and know that he is never coming back. If I had a dime for every person who told me that I would be rich! Those are the people you need to look out for.

Katie