Originally posted by Lirathal
I am currently living with my Grandmother, and she 'doesn't care for them'.
Ok, so it sounds to me like this kitty is coming home with you, one way or the other. (yippee!!!) As for your Grandmother "not caring for them" well, I wouldn't worry to much about that because I know a lot of people who "didn't care for cats" or considered themselves "dog people" who are now adamant cat lovers - Noahsmommy for one (if I remember right, it was her husband's idea to get the first cat. She fell in love with them and now not only has 6, but works at a vet's office). So if what Cataholic describes doesn't work (because you're male and might not know how to pull it off right, ) tell your Grandmother you will only keep her as long as it takes to find a good home for her. By the time that day comes, your Grandmother will have fallen head over heals for the little one, and will probably not let you take her with you when you decide to move out.

If she had come right and said "No, I will not allow a cat in this house." then you'd be between a rock and a hard place. The way I see it right now, "doesn't care for them" means bring the kitty home already!

If anyone ever questions you, tell them the kitty was abandoned - matter of fact, too bad you didn't have your video going this morning when she was crying at the door and they ignored her. That would be all the evidence you'd need to support your case.