my boyfriend and i moved to a totally new city because he got a wonderful new job. we had never lived together and i was scared to death. he proposed the night we moved in and i couldn't have been more happy. we've lived together for exactly one month, and it's been a challenge. you think you know somebody ha ha! but, through the challenge of a new city, new jobs, making friends, being broke (no fun!) i know in my heart of hearts that i love him and i belong with him. i believe that ANY relationship is work and if you love each other, it will be a success. oh, and if your pets love him, then you've already made a good choice! good luck!