She doesn't have to give a home address, just a church/funeral home address is fine. I understand how you feel, but I have been a victim of people pulling pranks before, and playing with people's emotions is not nice.

Why is wanting proof so bad? In all cases where people I have known on the internet have passed on, funeral info was given. We aren't asking for personal info.

If I'm wrong, Jessica's mother has my deepest sympathy, but things are weird in this case. My personal opinion, of course.