Firstly lily is BEAUTIFUL, and anyone who tells you different is either blind, or plain arrogant.

I can only commend you for taking such wonderful care of your pets, having burning candles around cat's is very dangerous, a disabled man sure learned that, his pet cat, knocked them over and the house caught alight, he made it out , but sadly his cat did not. He was left with nothing and the sad loss of his pet.

Don't pay any attention to these mindless comment's, and continue to do what you believe in, and what is best for your pet's, beside's it's NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS.