SAS, I am speaking for Robyn so I probably shouldn't even say this, but she always thought "who would want a cat like Gabe?" and then you walked into his life. Somewhere out there is a home for Ti. The problem is in finding the right one. Do you still volunteer at the shelter? I am thinking that maybe you might take Ti in there and just let him hang his hat there for a few days until you yourself find him a suitable home. That way Miley wouldn't have to come home and find him still there and you could take your time re-homing him. Just a thought.....