I was thinking the same thing as your payitforward, If the breeder is so untrustworthy, SAS can you trust her to get Ti a decent home. Just a thought.
I know this is a very hard decision for you, so I do not want to add to it, but was a little concerned about what you are saying about this women.
Just wishing you all the best, and that Ti is re-homed soon, and all work's out well.