Now that you have made you decision I feel that I can speak without being afraid to sway you one way or another. Someone said earlier in the other thread that Miley is your link with Graemer and I feel that way too. Although I never met Grammy Crackers either, just knowing that you have precious Miley, the survivor, the one who was able to stay healthy in the midst of the awfulness that claimed the life of Graemer and Gabe, has helped me to cling a little to the past. She is a beautiful sensitive kitty and she has been through so much. She has had a lot of losses in her short life and on top of all of that she has had so much stress with the Ti man these past few months. I am breathing a big sigh of relief tonight. I am so happy for Miley and I am also happy for you. Worrying about which doors are shut and where this cat is and that cat is has to be making you a little crazy. I know I would cave in at much less.

I know you will miss Ti, as will we all. He had become a Pet Talk favorite almost instantly. It was sweet the way he and Juni Rose took to one another but one cannot say with certitude that one day he would not have become aggressive even with Juni as she matured into a bigger girl.

I applaud and commend you for the things that you have tried - the Feliway, the home-made screen door and booking an appointment with a behaviorist. These are things that speak volumes about your devotion and commitment to Ti. I only hope that his next home is as loving as yours.

For now, I look forward to hearing happy stories from Camp Vermont when the sweet little patient returns on Monday. I think she and Juni will make such a precious pair of cuddlebugs, and as Miley feels better and better as each day goes by I bet we see a friendship bud between the two of them. She probably hasn't even been relaxed enough to bond with Juni yet, with always having one ear cocked to listen out for Ti.

Sleep well tonight SAS. You have given it your all and that's all you could do. (((hugs)))