Literally!

Wow, Pet Talkers, I am impressed that this debate has not turned into a Religious vs. Secular flame Free for All!

I, too, have picked "other."

Each individual is different, as we all hail from a plethora of religious and ethnic backgrounds. This is the first factor that a couple must take into account. If one, or both, individuals are hesitant to live together before marriage, based upon the ideals which they were taught, then it is a bad idea. Guilt is a very powerful emotion, and can eat away at the foundations of even the strongest union.

For those couples who are not influenced by moral reasons against co-habitation, then it is a great idea! Why wait until you've had the expensive ceremony and the ring to start living your life together? Life is short. If it doesn't work out, then cut your losses. If it does, then think about the marital certificate. Divorces are messy, I've watched my Mum endure two of them. Best to try and avoid them if you can, especially if there are little ones involved. And I'm not just referring to the pets! :P

Scott and I have now been living together since April - and it's great! If it feels right, go for it!