my opinion...

living with anyone... husband/roomate/boyfriend... is going to be hard. I know so many people who moved in with a friend and it really put a strain on the friendship.

I would say go ahead and get married first then move in together. I think it puts a little more excitement into the whole being a married couple anyway. There are always DOWNS and ups to moving in with someone and you shouldn't jeopordize the wedding by realizing too early that it is hard living with someone.

Me and my husband did not live together before we got married ,,, and it is probably a good thing.... I love my husband VERY MUCH... but it was HARD living with him at first.