Just wanted to offer my heartfelt sympathies on your loss of Goldie. I have a Russian Blue named Quigley, and he will be 15 on July 15th. He is starting to have some age related problems, and I now must face the fact he will not be with me forever. Wehave been through so much together that I cannot begin to imagine what it will be like without him there. He shares everything I do. He sleeps with me every night. I do not think we ever get over the loss of one of our precious furkids, but over time the pain becomes managable. I always try to honor their memory by giving the love to another cat, not in the same way of course, but because the love needs to be given, and there are five others I also have who will need it, as they are sure to feel the loss too......May you and Goldie be reunited at the Rainbow Bridge............