yea..it was a horrible thing to say..but meh...even if he doesn't die ...i just want him to leave us alone...he doesn't help my mom with our stuff...he just pays for what he has to pay..he doesn't help my mom with our clothing, our lunches and he is definately not busy. He sleeps most of the day. He's abusive, verbally and physically..I just hate him. But I learn to live with it I guess...I can't dwell on it forever. My mom filed for divorce..and he's leaving for china in a few years...so it's only a matter of time...