One more thing i want to comment on, is just because this person dared to speak up and differ from your opinions, you all shot her down in flames, accusing her of being a stirrer, and being so rude, i really dont think that was fair of any of you, everyone has a right to their opinion, you have all expressed yours and i mine, so why cant she?
I have heard of such people who do this on purpose, but she is not necessarily one of them, give her a chance to reply and c what she has to say, and be a little more open-minded please.