I would go with her, but she lives all the way in washington state..I am Arkansas...I have never met her IRL either..I have just known her through message boards for almost 2 years now....I have chatted with her and let her know that if she does get a new kitty, this kitty needs to be indoors only..that is the safest way to protect our kitties....she is not too offended but yet, I don't know if she is so much of a cat lover or just wants to buy it for her son and that's it...