Its funny u should mention this, because i was feeling real guilty the other day coz since i have had Lexie, i dont think about Sooti as much, but i know that was the grieving process i had to go through, and when he died, i never thought of anything else every day, i cried, and although it was healthy for me to get my grief out , it was not healthy for me to think of nothing else, it seemed nothing else mattered anymore, i was finding myself getting so down, now once Lexie arrived it all went away, the pain i mean, does not mean i have forgotten my lil boy, and i never will, just means i have moved on for the better.