FLS,

Your friends going off with guys over their other grilfriends (including you) are doing themselves no favours. You see at your age and for a lot of our lives even in marriage sometimes boys come and go whereas friends are always there for you. If your friends continually choose boys over their friends one day the boy will dump them and they will find that their friends have moved on and that they are the ones who are left on their own.

I also know when I was at school and we girls had wised up to the fact boys used us because we were pretty, had the biggest boobs, would do this would do that they moved onto the younger girls in the years below. The sad thing was they just used these girls and then dropped them. These girls were then branded "easy" and "slags" (british term) and the boys chose to respect and date the girls who were not "easy" and that they could have more than a physical relationship with.

To date a guy is more than just asking him out and cuddling it is about being friends.

And I know in those groups of boys there is a "loser" boy who has never had a girlf and if he chose someone he liked I'm sure it wouldn't be one of your friends who everyone else had dated before him.