OK, just one more "old lady's" opinion.
1) you are young! Too young to worry about NEVER having had a BF, what? did you expect to start dating at 7 years old?this is a funny, sarcastic remark meant to make you laugh
2) I am the perfect example of someone who did not date early, did not date often, always felt like an unwanted outcast.....BUT.....I am the only person that I know from both high school and college combined that has been able to actually STAY married. I attribute it to learning how to appreciate a relationship, where I think they learned "when the going gets tough...move on to the next person"

I am sure there is more, but one of the most important things to remember is that we know it hurts and we know you can't just automatically stop it from hurting, but we want you to know that it will get better and you will probably end up (in the long run) MUCH better than they are. Besides, we like you the way you are.