eeeegads...I hope none of my buddies read this as I've been known to whine over a mere fraction of just one part of what you're dealing with. That said, it has been my experience that whining...er venting...can be very therapeautic. So you just go ahead and share because I think you will find the people here to be quite caring and sympathetic. The worst has just got to be behind you and soon your body and soul will recoup resources and it will smooth sailing. I do hope you will feel better really fast. We're going to be checking in on you, so keep us posted.
Good wishes for Elvis too.