I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out. We almost gave up our Gabby, she just wouldn't adjust and the others wouldn't accept her. We were searching for a home and all of a sudden everything worked out. I don't know why, guess it just took her longer than the others. I think she may have come from a one cat household. We found her on our roof in the middle of the night terrified. We think she was dumped. She's our Tortie.