Everyone has already said the most important things, but please know that I too respect and support your decision. Unfortunately, we just don't always know how a cat will react until we give it a chance, and you have more than done that! Perhaps that is why Oliver was at the shelter to begin with? Well, THIS time you will make sure that it doesn't happen again to Oliver, and that he will only go to a home that he can rule all by himself!!!

You are a wonderful cat-mom, so don't forget that!!!