Oh Kelly, I'm so sorry things didn't work out for Oliver. But I know you are only thinking of his best interests and you're right that it's not fair to try and make him into the cat that you want. He has to be his own kitty, and if that means being a 1-kitty family, then that's what it will have to be for him. He will be so much happier, and so will the rest of your gang - and you...and David. I know you've been upset about his behavior almost right from the beginning, and you certainly don't need that stress right now either.

It sounds like you've thought long and hard about this, and you don't have to feel bad about your decision. You tried your best, and you most certainly didn't fail him. You did everything you knew how to make him happy.

Please give him one last hug for me before you take him back. I'm sure he will find a great furrever home where he will rule the roost, and there wont' be anybody to argue with him about it.