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    He kept saying it happened on monday it happened on monday. I suggested the manager look on tuesday and he kept saying no, it was monday. So I figured i'd check tuesday, I thought he was covering for someone but it turns out it was himself

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    Thieves get no respect, and I doubt anyone in the store will ever trust the individual again.

    I'm amazed he wasn't fired. I would take Richard's advice as a CYA measure, you ever know what someone will do in retaliation.
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    You did right thing, I am also very surprised, he is not fired.

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    One thing I forgot to mention?

    You will have to deal with that person to give them job assignments, etc.?

    Try to have a third party present when you do.

    You never know when people will 'mis-hear' a conversation?

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    I told her that I wanted to meet with that person and hear their side of the story, because I didn't remember doing it. And, if that person was correct, she was more than welcome to write me up.

    She NEVER brought it up again.
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    You did the right thing. He should have been fired, period! Next time someone steals, no on will turn them in knowing the person will still be there.
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    You did your job! And it was absolutely the right thing to do.
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    You definitely did the right thing. However, your employer did not. He should have been fired.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RICHARD View Post
    One thing I forgot to mention?

    You will have to deal with that person to give them job assignments, etc.?

    Try to have a third party present when you do.

    You never know when people will 'mis-hear' a conversation?

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    I once had an idiot supervisor say that I 'ran down the hallway, cursing' outside her office while she was with another employee.

    I told her that I wanted to meet with that person and hear their side of the story, because I didn't remember doing it. And, if that person was correct, she was more than welcome to write me up.

    She NEVER brought it up again.
    I'm with Richard on this one.
    Also - You might want to take notes on all of this in case someone from your company returns to you with questions later. If you are alone with this person for any reason, keep yourself between him and the exit. Keep your conversations factual, so that nothing you say is open to misinterpretation in any way. Don't walk to your car alone after work, if you can avoid it. You definitely did the right thing and your company should back you up big-time. This person should have been let go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RICHARD View Post
    One thing I forgot to mention?

    You will have to deal with that person to give them job assignments, etc.?

    Try to have a third party present when you do.

    You never know when people will 'mis-hear' a conversation?
    I work with this person 4 days a week, I'm his supervisor. It's just me and him. I'm so nervous to go into work tomorrow. I don't really want to deal with the awkwardness...I also close the store alone most nights. I think I'm likely going to quit. The manager says pretty mean things to me as well. I almost think I could have a case against him for the things he tells me. I've gone to the bathroom crying at least 4 times because of him. He's also keeping this incident a secret from management, so I suppose if the co worker does something to me I can use that against the manager....(He and the manager are friends)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sowa View Post
    I work with this person 4 days a week, I'm his supervisor. It's just me and him. I'm so nervous to go into work tomorrow. I don't really want to deal with the awkwardness...I also close the store alone most nights. I think I'm likely going to quit. The manager says pretty mean things to me as well. I almost think I could have a case against him for the things he tells me. I've gone to the bathroom crying at least 4 times because of him. He's also keeping this incident a secret from management, so I suppose if the co worker does something to me I can use that against the manager....(He and the manager are friends)
    You should contact the owners of the store, whoever your manager has to report to. The manager and his friend are the problem, not you. It will take courage to get through this, but you have all of Pet Talk behind you!
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