Oh Kirsten, I'm so sorry. I really hope that the removal of whatever it is will solve her problem, it's apparently painful for her.

I think Candace's idea of offering help with photos, or other things is good idea to help pay for the vet bill. I know it's not much you get on disability or pension. I do a bit of cat-sitting myself for a small fee, which helps me survive, perhaps you could do that, too.

You're in my thoughts and I'm sending positive wishes for Lily and hope her operation will be successful.

((((hugs))))