Update on 17 year old Bartie...

[pomtzu]

I'm with you Donna, and your way of thinking. It seems obvious that it's time to let him go and with your love surrounding him. He could needlessly suffer for a long time before he leaves on his own - what quality of living is that? We are their caregivers and it's our responsibility to do what's in their best interest, no matter how terrible it makes us feel.

{{{Hugs}}}, and may you find the strength to make the best decision for Bartie, who cannot make it for himself.

[Queen of Poop]

I'm so sorry Donna. Have him looked at a second time, if the diagnosis is confirmed perhaps it will help Nancy deal with the next step. If she's wanting a third look see then it's time to draw the line. Hugs for all of you, especially Bartie!

[krazyaboutkatz]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I also believe that his time is up and that you should help him along to the Bridge. When an animals quality of life is gone then it's time to say goodbye. If a second opinion will help your friend then I'd do it. I know this is a very difficult time for you. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

[phesina]

Oh, Donna and Bartie, sending along all our love and prayers to you both.

I'd say get the second opinion too, but you make the decision on the next step.

{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}} and ~~~~~~~PURRS~~~~~~~ and ,
Pat and cats

[Karen]

Sending prayers your way, for comfort and clarity.

[moosmom]

He's got an appointment tomorrow at 3:15 with Dr. Larry Pennington for a second opinion. I've talked to Dr. Soutter and asked why they didn't offer SubQ fluids. She said Bartie's hypertention is the reason. They erred on the side of caution. She said he shows classic signs of bladder irritation. I asked if he was in pain and she said a UTI can be painful. Well DUH, everyone KNOWS that!!! She also told me that it is possible that his kidneys are shutting down.

The vet is going to fax all his records in time for his appointment tomorrow. Please keep Bartie in your prayers. I'll post once he's back home.

[phesina]

Prayers for dearest Bartie and for you too, Donna.

, Pat and cats

[Randi]

I'm with you Donna, and your way of thinking. It seems obvious that it's time to let him go and with your love surrounding him. He could needlessly suffer for a long time before he leaves on his own - what quality of living is that? We are their caregivers and it's our responsibility to do what's in their best interest, no matter how terrible it makes us feel.

{{{Hugs}}}, and may you find the strength to make the best decision for Bartie, who cannot make it for himself.

I totally agree with this. We all know that cats don't whine when they're feeling rotten and in pain, they go somewhere quiet and suffer. Please don't let that happen.

(((hugs)))

[moosmom]

Thanks Randi. I'd rather get a second opinion and KNOW that I did all I could for him.

He has been drinking water and goat's milk lately. But so far nothing is coming out.

[Catty1]

Prayers for Bartie and for you. I hope the antibiotics make him a little more comfortable at least.

[moosmom]

Because of the snow we got hit with, the appointment is now on Monday at 9:30.

The GOOD news is he's eating!!!! I think that long acting antibiotic is finally kicking in. Now all we have to do is see if his kidneys are failing or just a UTI.

Phew!!! Now it's just a matter of keeping him comfortable and happy.

[Catty1]

Good news! I hope he keeps eating and drinking and that stuff starts appearing at his other end! Be comfy, Bartie. You are so so loved so I don't even have to wish you that!

[phesina]

Wonderful!

Loads of love to Bartie and you, Donna!