Kirsten, this does sound very stressful, even for a person without your anxiety issues.

On the plus side, just here in this post you have listed many reasons why is makes sense for you to stay where you are. These are things you will need to convey to your case manager. Maybe you can start by making it into a list, each item separate. Or maybe your style is more as a paragraph. Either way, spell it all out clearly, as you have done here, and have it ready to present to the case manager when the time comes. You certainly have put thought into this already, to have it set out as you did for us, here.

Fingers and paws crossed for you here in RI and sending prayers that you get to stay put.