Personally I always thought it unfair that women can wear basically anything we want but men get strangled with ties. My point to him about the shirt was an observation instead of complaint (picking my fights and all that) the shirt became an issue after he tested me in a couple other ways.

A female cowrker got away with tan jeans yesterday knowing full well jeans are prohibited. How she expected me to consider tan jeans NOT jeans I dunno.... and of course I never got to talk to her yesterday because she arrived 35 minutes late and the store was crazy busy. I cant ignore customers to chastize her... nor am I going to say anything to her in front of the entire sales staff. It was closing time before I knew it and the opportunity to talk was gone.