on a mercy mission, need your advice...

[Karen]

Let us know when you know, you'll be in our prayers.

[phesina]

Prayers for the little kitty and for you too, Carole.

[carole]

Thanks Pat, when i think about it all i feel sick in the stomach, i don't know what has happened and i am worried, i know if she needed to be put to sleep , that it is for the best, but one still does not feel good that i had anything to do with it,i just think there she was enjoying the sun,and i may have been the one to take it all away from her, even though i know she probably was suffering, even with the fleas, i just don't feel good about myself at all, silly i know, but that is me. I just feel like a nosey busy body, interfering, and because of me this baby may have lost her life, i know it might have been for the best, but i still feel oh so bad.When i think about it , it just makes me cry.

[Karen]

I just feel like a nosey busy body, interfering, and because of me this baby may have lost her life, i know it might have been for the best, but i still feel oh so bad.When i think about it , it just makes me cry.

Oh, carole, don't feel bad! If she was sick and suffering, then being put to sleep was likely a merciful end. She had fleas that were visible from where you were standing, and that's gotta be painful. And if she wasn't put to sleep, if she is inside somewhere getting care, that's also a better outcome than just doing nothing would have been.

You did nothing wrong.

[carole]

Thanks Karen, i know you are right, just doesn't feel good is all, yes i hope she is getting better care, or she has gone to the Rainbow Bridge, peacefully. As hubby said maybe because you brought it to his attention, he may well have decided to take her in and do the right thing, if that was the right thing to do, but somehow i doubt it, i mean if he cared that much, why did he not de flea her, such an easy and affordable thing to do, which would have made her comfortable.