Chances are mom has an inkling that her daughter is heading down a dangerous path. Your daughter is right - if you go to mom, things most likely won't change.

BUT if mom has no idea at all, or no idea the extent of the daughter's activities, mom should know. Screen captues printed out are helpful. You can tell her this info comes directly from her daughter herself.

I know in my experience with my daughter and hubby.... I had every idea what that girl was up to. I kept trying to tell hubby and he kept burrying his head in the sand. He thought I was being dramtic. He now admits he was way wrong and wishes he paid attention. If he was given some proof in form of posts from facebook? Things might be different... maybe not. But at least he would have known for sure. Back then, he was adamently against therapy. Now he has seen how much difference it makes. He wishes he listened to me and got her there when we had the chance.

Oh, and with my daughter, I kept telling her that her boyfriend was cheating on her (among other things illegal). I found out proof via facebook the night before Cam was born. She never believed me til then... and then she was stuck with a brand new infant and no idea of what she was going to do. I felt really bad for her because I felt that I could have stopped ALL of it if hubby would have just listened to me before any of it happened.