thanks for the suggestions, have thought about doing this to, yes nothing has changed , saw her this morning again, outside as usual and full of fleas, i do have a spare revolution,well not really spare for my cats, but yes i would eagerly donate it for Pixie, it is very distressing to see her in that state, and terrible for her.

You know i was thinking if she has lived for 17 yrs with them, she must have had pretty good care along the way,my train of thought is now she is old, maybe she has peeing and pooing issues, and they don't want the expense of vet visits, keep in mind they have another cat and two dogs, so letting nature take its course and just keep her outside, sure he said she can get in and out of the garage window, but can she , she has really bad arthritis in back and i noticed the front as well, she is so wobbly on her feet, poor wee soul, i really think she has a lot going on , than just what he knows or says.

I am pissed that he said he would de flea her and hasn't, i kind of walked away feeling he is BS me, cat shelter say get SPCA involved, but i don't know what to do, if they do uplift her and they may not, she will be PTS,and maybe that would be the best for her, i just am so torn as what is the best thing to do,i am feeling stressed and i really can't let myself get that way right now.

I only wish i had some of you guys with me to approach him again, i am really nervous about doing so, it took enough courage the first time, but i did it for Pixie's sake.