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  1. #1
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    Goodness, after 20 years, it is no longer a plant it is FAMILY!

    No idea what happened, as anytime I buy a plant we start planning it's funeral. So I'm not the one to ask, fur sure!

    Sorry for your loss, Ellie.

    Good news: this is the time of year to pick up a replacement!
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    These plants can get quite old - so 20 was middle age compared to some that I know of. When I was still working, a co-workers mother had one that was 35 - don't know if it's still around 6 years later, or not.

    Before this one that just bit the dust, I had another very big one that was about 15, and in the course of moving and letting a former relative plant sit it for a month, she killed that one for me by watering it daily after I gave her specific instructions on how to care for it. I was furious!!!!
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    Ellie ours are, at the very least, 35 years old; probably over 40. They are members of the family and we try not to upset them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinot's Mom View Post
    Ellie ours are, at the very least, 35 years old; probably over 40. They are members of the family and we try not to upset them.
    Well - if you put it that way - I'll cancel the plant-nap attempt and let them stay in their happy home.
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    To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.
    Ecclesiastes 3:1
    The clock of life is wound but once and no man has the power
    To know just when the hands will stop - on what day, or what hour.
    Now is the only time you have, so live it with a will -
    Don't wait until tomorrow - the hands may then be still.
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  5. Aw so sorry to hear that =<

    i have a philodendron thats somehow managed to survive my not-so-green thumb for many years. its not growing in new shoots as fast as it used to. i hope its not dieing on me. if it does i will be sad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Freedom View Post
    Goodness, after 20 years, it is no longer a plant it is FAMILY!

    No idea what happened, as anytime I buy a plant we start planning it's funeral.
    You are so funny!

    Pomtzu:
    Don't be sad.
    Yesterday I bougth a pair of christmas cactus and looking for information about them, found out that the span of life of these plants are between fifteen and twenty years old.

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    Quote Originally Posted by koxka View Post
    You are so funny!

    Pomtzu:
    Don't be sad.
    Yesterday I bougth a pair of christmas cactus and looking for information about them, found out that the span of life of these plants are between fifteen and twenty years old.
    See post 11 & 12. They can really live to be seniors!
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    To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.
    Ecclesiastes 3:1
    The clock of life is wound but once and no man has the power
    To know just when the hands will stop - on what day, or what hour.
    Now is the only time you have, so live it with a will -
    Don't wait until tomorrow - the hands may then be still.
    ~~~~true author unknown~~~~

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    It seems they can get quite old. I have a huge one I got from my mother, and she got it from her mother. It hasn't bloomed since I've had it, though - but it's alive!

    I've had a few smaller ones in recent years, with lots of flowers, but they have died. I may have watered them to much.

    In 1979, I had a huge Philidendron, it was much too big for where I lived at the time, so I gave it to my sister and BIL. They still have it, but they have cut it down a bit. Some plants just seem to thrive.



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    Pomtzu:

    Maybe you can give me some advice how to keep them that long.

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    From growing up with them, dunno how old the one Dad currently has is, but ... O think it was from one of my grandparents, originally, and they were all deceased by the time I was 12 ...

    Water enough, but not every day. They are not cactuses, despite the name, they are succulents. Make sure the pot has good drainage. Every few years, repot it so it has good fresh dirt, fertilize a little after blossom time is over, but not too much ... If you don't want it to get too huge, trim it back, you can always root the trimmings and give them away ...

    They prefer benign neglect to overwatering or fertilizing. And to get blossom, put them in a window that gets some light but not direct sunlight in the summer. The changing length of days is what triggers the blossom cycle. I had one in a West-facing window where I worked, and it blossomed every year from about Halloween to Easter!
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    Quote Originally Posted by koxka View Post
    Pomtzu:

    Maybe you can give me some advice how to keep them that long.
    I found the best way to take care of them, is to ignore them! They are not fussy plants that require a lot of maintenance.

    The worst thing you can do, is to over water. Generally, I watered no more than once each week, but not a saturating watering so that water is standing on the top and not absorbed. The top of the soil should be very dry to the touch before giving any more water, but still that doesn't mean that it isn't moist further down in the bottom section of the pot, and the bigger the pot, the more difficult it is to judge what's going on toward the bottom. I have a little gadget that came in handy - it is a meter that reads the amount of moisture in the soil. It looks like a meat thermometer and you just stick the end into the soil and it gives readings anywhere from dry to wet and everything in between. This was especially handy in checking to see if the soil at the bottom was wet, even when the top was very dry.

    A pot with good drainage is a must, since you don't want the plant sitting in a soaking wet soil. Don't put them in an area that gets a lot of heat and and direct sunlight all day. The one that I had that I just lost was in a window that got early morning sun, and it bloomed twice each year - in November & December, and then again in early Spring. The one before that one that my former relative killed, got the mid to late afternoon sun, but I think that only bloomed once each year.

    And you can start new plants by breaking off a branch (3 or 4 leaves long), and just putting that in a cup of water so that the bottom leaf only is in the water. When you see roots sprouting on the bottom, then just plant it in a good potting soil, and you have a new plant started!

    Good luck.
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    To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.
    Ecclesiastes 3:1
    The clock of life is wound but once and no man has the power
    To know just when the hands will stop - on what day, or what hour.
    Now is the only time you have, so live it with a will -
    Don't wait until tomorrow - the hands may then be still.
    ~~~~true author unknown~~~~

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    Question:

    Should my cats decide to nibble, are Christmas Cacti poisonous?
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    So sorry to hear about your deceased plant.. The plant was a very pretty plant.. Wow 20 yrs is a pretty old plant.. Was there any little tiny white mites at the bottom of the plant next to the soil??

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