Er, I am shocked that they did that! Flabbergasted, actually!

As someone said, relocating dementia patients can be very confusing for them. And with meds involved . . . . Geesh!

I don't think you should feel guilty (of course, I would feel that way too). That is way out of line. Much too much with the meds and all, to have it just dumped on you, or anyone.

I still have my Dad here at home, with the dementia, the diabetes, the Depends, and a total of 17 pills per day and the 4 insulin injections. It is a LOT to manage. And to pick it up on the fly like that? You made the right decision.

Sorry you didn't get the holiday dinner w/ your mum. Perhaps once the utilities are back on, they can reschedule that meal.