For those of you that are interested in what Phoenix looks like I have attached two pictures of her, they both show her life as it is now. Sleeping (always on her side curled up or back if mums there. And mum cleaning her just before feeding (has to be before feeding because after feeding Phoenix goes into a deep sleep).
I will see what Phoenix is like alone before I think of adding another kitten as I know some times they like to be alone.
I thought the vet saying nothing can be done for kittens was strange as I remember the last vet I worked in had a kitten there with neuro problems.
I was once bitten by one of the Feral cats at my previous vet job who had FIV. He was fine one minute, allowed me to pet him then her suddenly turnt and lashed out. I waited for him to calm down before petting him again to say it's okay. I know how temper mental animals can be.
I also have a female Dogue de Bordeaux we had from a puppie, she is 7 now and has had health problems after the other and she is also very temper mental, and can be aggressive around food so I'm somewhat use to temper mental pets.
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