Am I over reacting?

[happylabs]

This guy sounds very immature. My opinion is that anyone visiting my home should respect my pets or not visit.

[krazyaboutkatz]

This guy sounds very immature. My opinion is that anyone visiting my home should respect my pets or not visit.

I totally agree. I would never be able to just sit back and say nothing. I would've told him to leave and not come back a long time ago.

[Taz_Zoee]

I would definitely say something. I'd probably say...I understand you don't like cats, but can you stop making comments all the time? Or I'd say....well, the cat lives here so if you don't like it then don't come over. Who knows, I'd probably not be very nice about it after putting up with it so often.

He is definitely very immature and needs to grow up. Will your boyfriend talk to him about it, if you don't feel comfortable doing it? I can understand you not wanting to cause problems. In fact, I probably wouldn't have said anything when I was younger either. I've become a bit "hard" in my old age.

[katladyd]

I would just tell him, "Tough! She lives here and you don't! She can go where she wants, IT'S HER HOME."

[moosmom]

Your cat was there before he was. "Love Me, Love My Cat" I would never even consider dating anyone who didn't have a respect for animals. It's obvious he doesn't.

I'd seriously consider losing the boyfriend before something else happens. Sorry, JMO.

[aTailOf2Kitties]

I'd seriously consider losing the boyfriend before something else happens. Sorry, JMO.

it's not her boyfriend, it's his friend

[moosmom]

What the hell kind of friend is that??? I'd let the friend know that if he can't respect the kitty, to stay home!!

I have a friend who is not a "cat" person. But, she respects me and my cats and even had me over with my two naked babies one night during the power outtage.

That "friend" needs to grow up.