And TD, you have not done it "all on your own"...no one has. We are all dependent upon each other.
Oh, really? And you know this how? You don't know me, or anything about my life. Sorry, but you are quite wrong.

I put myself through college by working two jobs. I paid for every penny of my education myself. I pay for everything my son needs. I bought my own business seven years ago. My business and my home are now paid for, free and clear, because I worked hard to make it so. I don't work for anyone, I don't take anything from anyone. YES, I HAVE done it all on my own. I don't have anyone to rely on, and that's fine with me. I take responsibilty for myself. Everyone should.

I'm sick and tired of the "poor me, everyone owes me something because I had a bad childhood" attitude from people of my generation in the country. My response is always, "Yeah, well, so did I. Get over it." What ever happened to a work ethic? To taking pride and responsibility in one's own abilities? In trying to better oneself? In self respect?