Quote Originally Posted by Malibu's Mom View Post
In the meantime - I'd keep him out of the bedroom. Try putting up a baby gate to block him from having access to the door. I put a baby gate right outside the door to keep them from scratching on it. Also, spray some Feliway around the house. It's a calming pheromone that can sometimes work well.

When it comes down to the whole cat vs. boyfriend thing - I'm going to be blunt and say that I don't think a boyfriend that would make you give away something you truly love is a BF worth keeping. You said your cat is your "baby" - do you honestly think it's worth it to give him up for the chance to MAYBE marry this guy? And what if you give the cat up and he never proposes, or you get in a big fight and break up, he has to move away, etc?

A cat will always give you unconditional love until the day they die. I cannot say the same for the men.
Very good advice. I totally agree.