Honest advice needed

[Marigold2]

Bill is very aware the this is the case but it's small company and he can handle it, he puts her in her place very tactfully. But yes it is a dirty thing isn't it. I don't think men like to report this even if it was a bigger company and he could be transford. Inless the women is a toad or something I think men usually would see this as a good thing, I know it is wrong but that is the way a lot of men think.
Bill is not one of them. He is a nice man but more important in this case I think he is very good looking and he has had this happen in the past. I see how women look at him when we have gone out together. They look at him, they look at me and look puzzled. LOL Like what is SHE doing with him. LOL I went to a wholesale club with him, he asked if he could go since I have the membership and he wanted it get somethings, I said sure. So there we are shopping like a couple and yes women were eyeing him left and right.

As I said he dates 30 year old women who look like they stepped out of a Victoria's Secret ad.
I can see why. And there he is with me, 52 and chubby grocery shopping. No wonder women wanted to know what the heck was going on. Ah well. That is why we can be such good friends because there is nothing going on. It is great.

Our real problem is lunch. We work really hard and we look forward to our time to eat and relax. Somedays we pull 12 hours and that lunch time is so needed. I think it is just sad that we have to try and hide or change or plans to avoid her. There are other people who sometimes join us or we see other people at different tables and say "hello, how are you"?
Perhaps as the wedding draws closer she will leave Bill alone.
I don't know if she will ever learn to be nice and play well with others however.
We are a close tight bunch and then BANG it came trouble. Oh well such is life.
Thank you everyone for your advice and time. I truly appreciate it.
Wom you silly man. You can come and take her any time back to your homeland it would be a blessings.

Since he is the person being sexually harrassed, he should report it. That gets you out of the middle.

[wombat2u2004]

Wom you silly man. You can come and take her any time back to your homeland it would be a blessings.

No way mate, there's plenty of those good-time girls here already.
I'd rather just sit here and imagine you three at lunch time, with her drooling all over the table....hee hee.
Anyway Monica, my original advice on the matter was the result of some very deep thinking on my part. I thought at the time..... "Is she really bothering him ??" or "Is he just shy but really needs to practice ???" I of course, after much deleberation chose the latter.

[cassiesmom]

She makes very sexual comments, goes up very close to smell him, picks lint off of him, stands too close, and it makes working difficult because there are not very many of us and we do have to work together all day long.

This feels to me like it's teetering on the brink of a hostile work environment.

The other thing I thought of is - don't let her be alone with him (within reason, of course), so that she can't falsely accuse him of anything. Any time they're chatting, someone else is observing (or at least listening). I like the idea of firmly re-directing the conversation to her fiancé when the conversation goes in that direction.

[Marigold2]

Update. Her behavior has gotten worst. Her comments are constent and she spends every minute just staring at this guy.
The other day she tried to rub her girls against him in the hall so she was reported and talked to. His comment to her was, "This is NOT gonna happen".
They are looking to replace her.
Everyone was noticing it even the Dr. He is now watching her behavior very closely.
It is so awkward.
Since he and I get along well the looks she gives me are horrible. She has some serious problems. After all she is suppose to be in love with her man and getting married in July not chasing her co-worker.
We were such a fun and happy group till she came. Hopefully they will find a replacement soon.

[Marigold2]

UPDATE............
Her replacement has been found and she will be out in two weeks. We are all so giddy with happiness.

[moosmom]

That's great news Marigold2!! There's nothing worse than a hostile work environment. Believe me, I've worked in alot of them!

[Catty1]

Thank goodness. It might be out of place, but I hope someone informs her fiance of what she did...like, the guy she was 'bothering'.

That woman really needs her head read. I hope she does that...but sounds like she's in total denial.

Glad you will have a happier workplace soon!