Marigold:

EXCELLENT list! I've seen similar in the past. Yup, I do all that, AND for my Dad as well as me!

We tend to arrive early as I am dealing w/ a dementia patient / parent. Getting him to move is a SLOW process. We start about 3 hours before the appt time. If we happen to get there 15 minutes early, GREAT, we will sit and wait, we don't mind. Just be sure to let me know where the men's room is, old men with uncontrolled diabetes (and all those other ailments you see on his computerized medical record) gotta go about every 25 minutes.

We tend to arrive early EXCEPT when we arrive late; it happens. Again, I am dealing w/ a dementia patient. Sometimes, he just sits and refuses to move for half an hour. If we will be more than 15 minutes late, I call to let you know and ask if you want us to come or reschedule; thankfully, Dad's docs and staff do understand about dementia and can usually fit us in same day. If we are bumped by an hour, hey I understand; but we are going to just keep moving to get there, arrive early for the new time, and sit and wait -- I can't afford to have him sit down and get stubborn again!


Let me tell you about our dogs and cats . . . . .