My divorce is going to court...Update Mar 11

**Queen of Poop** · 02-15-2011, 01:28 PM

Ok. No response from his side in almost a month. So we are proceeding with the previously re-scheduled questioning. It will take place next Friday, February 25th at my lawyer's office Both of us in one day. His lawyer has today to get back to us to get negotiations going otherwise it will proceed to questioning and then court. Something I understood he wanted to avoid. So we'll see where this goes.

**Karen** · 02-15-2011, 01:33 PM

Good luck, we'll be thinking of you that day! And when you walk in there, remember, you have hundreds of Pet Talkers behind you, taking your side!

**wombat2u2004** · 02-16-2011, 08:12 PM

Originally Posted by Queen of Poop

Ok. No response from his side in almost a month. So we are proceeding with the previously re-scheduled questioning. It will take place next Friday, February 25th at my lawyer's office Both of us in one day. His lawyer has today to get back to us to get negotiations going otherwise it will proceed to questioning and then court. Something I understood he wanted to avoid. So we'll see where this goes.

Hmmmm....they are all giving you a run for your money eh ????
Not to mention the common practice of jacking the bill up by drawing out the case.
Best of luck with it next week mate.

**Queen of Poop** · 02-16-2011, 08:18 PM

Thanks Karen and Wom. Appreciate the support.

Late letter from HIS side. They are going to provide a response to our settlement proposal by the end of this week. More waiting, but maybe it will be good and then things can be over.

**Pinot's Mom** · 02-16-2011, 08:41 PM

Prayers for a good (or tolerable) outcome...lots of {{{hugs}}}

**gini** · 02-17-2011, 01:27 PM

Sounds like they are just trying to wear you down so you will settle for anything - just to get it over with.

Stay firm - two years from now you won't be able to do anything about this.............so you can wait another week - look how long it has been already.

Prayers and cuddles and encouragement for you......................!!!!

**phesina** · 02-17-2011, 07:01 PM

{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} and ~~~~~~PURRS~~~~~~ and lots of prayers for you, that you stay strong, and that this works out the best possible way it can for you and you can finally put it behind you!

**Queen of Poop** · 02-18-2011, 04:07 PM

In case anyone was wondering, there is no settlement today. There was nothing forthcoming to my lawyer before noon today and then their office closed for the long weekend. So even if something was sent I will not receive word of it until Tuesday. I do not anticipate the questioning next Friday will go ahead. So again it is more hurry up and wait. That's ok though, I have loads of patience and I will see this thru to the end. Thanks again all for your support.

**Karen** · 02-18-2011, 05:07 PM

Okay! Enjoy the long weekend, we'll be thinking of you hoping for good news Tuesday! But why is it a long weekend for you folks? We have a long weekend for Presidents' Day - George Washington's birthday is actually Tuesday, but it also celebrates Abraham Lincoln' birthday, which was the 12th - but they were American Presidents ...

**Queen of Poop** · 02-18-2011, 05:23 PM

Originally Posted by Karen

Okay! Enjoy the long weekend, we'll be thinking of you hoping for good news Tuesday! But why is it a long weekend for you folks? We have a long weekend for Presidents' Day - George Washington's birthday is actually Tuesday, but it also celebrates Abraham Lincoln' birthday, which was the 12th - but they were American Presidents ...

This is what they lovingly refer to as the FAMILY DAY WEEKEND. Theoretically you're supposed to be doing something with your family on Monday. As I recall it's because a number of years back our Provincial Premier's son got into trouble with drugs and died. Something along those lines anyway. So the day was set aside to promote the FAMILY UNIT.

**Marigold2** · 02-28-2011, 05:09 PM

What a long ordeal this is for you Gayle. Wishing you all the best.

**Queen of Poop** · 02-28-2011, 06:44 PM

Originally Posted by Marigold2

What a long ordeal this is for you Gayle. Wishing you all the best.

Thank you.

It's going on and on and on.

The questioning was rescheduled again to March 14th, at my demand. His side is apparently working on a reply to our settlement proposal and wanted more time. I want to keep the questioning on the table so they continue to make progress. So more hurry up and wait. Which is OK I guess, it's too cold and snowy to buy a house right now anyway. Always looking at the bright side!

**Marigold2** · 02-28-2011, 09:44 PM

That a girl. This is hard on you but it must be hell on him.

**cassiesmom** · 02-28-2011, 11:24 PM

Originally Posted by Queen of Poop

Thank you.

It's going on and on and on.

The questioning was rescheduled again to March 14th, at my demand. His side is apparently working on a reply to our settlement proposal and wanted more time. I want to keep the questioning on the table so they continue to make progress. So more hurry up and wait. Which is OK I guess, it's too cold and snowy to buy a house right now anyway. Always looking at the bright side!

Continued prayers and a candle,
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...g&cid=12785966

Elyse